
11 Months Out
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If you haven’t already, it’s imperative that you get your priority vendors booked for your date. Ultimately your priority vendors are whichever vendors are most important to you.
However the common priority vendors aside from your venue and catering are your DJ, Photographer, and Videographer.
Here is a list of our Recommended Vendors to help you out!
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Book Early, Especially in Peak Seasons
Spring and fall dates go fast! Aim to schedule 6–9 months before the wedding—or earlier if you're using photos for save-the-dates.Choose a Photographer You Vibe With
If you’ve already booked your wedding photographer, this is a perfect time to get comfortable with them before the big day.Pick a Location That Feels You
Whether it’s your favorite park, a cozy café, downtown, or at home—choose a spot that reflects your personality as a couple.Time It with Golden Hour
Early morning or late afternoon light makes for the dreamiest photos. Your photographer can help plan the best time.Coordinate, Don’t Match
Wear outfits that complement each other in color and style—but avoid being too “matchy.” Stick to 1–2 outfits max.Plan for Weather and Backup Options
If you're outdoors, have a flexible mindset or a backup date/location just in case.Use the Photos Creatively
Engagement shots can be used for your save-the-dates, wedding website, guest book, social media, or even your décor!Relax and Be Yourselves
This is about capturing your connection, not posing perfectly. Laugh, move, and have fun—you’ll love the results more
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Start Early
Launch your site around the time you send save-the-dates—especially if you’re having a destination or multi-day wedding.Choose a Simple, Clean Design
Stick to a layout that’s easy to navigate and matches your wedding style. Most platforms have wedding-specific templates.Include the Must-Have Info
Be sure to add:Your names and wedding date
Venue(s) and address(es)
Timeline of events
Dress code
Accommodation options
Travel tips or maps
RSVP form (if using online RSVPs)
Registry links
Write in Your Voice
Keep it warm, casual, and you. A short welcome message or “Our Story” section adds personality without needing to be long.Use Password Protection If Needed
Some couples prefer to keep details private—many platforms let you add a password or hide the site from search engines.Make It Mobile-Friendly
Guests will likely view your site on their phones, so choose a template that’s responsive and easy to read on all devices.Keep It Updated
Add any schedule changes, weather tips, or final reminders as the big day gets closer. Let your guests know to check back.Link to Your Social Media or Hashtag
If you're using a wedding hashtag or Instagram handle, include it on your site so guests can tag and follow along.
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Start Early (but Not Too Early)
Begin 9–12 months before your wedding to allow time for ordering and alterations—but don’t start so early that your style might change.Set a Realistic Budget
Factor in not just the dress, but alterations, accessories, shoes, and undergarments. Be honest about your number upfront with your stylist.Keep an Open Mind
You might fall in love with something unexpected. Try on a few different silhouettes—you never know what will make you feel amazing.Limit Your Crew
Bring 1–3 trusted people whose opinions matter most. Too many voices can make decision-making stressful.Wear the Right Undergarments
Nude or seamless underwear and a strapless bra can help you visualize the fit better. Bring shoes with a similar heel height if you have them.Think About Comfort + Movement
Sit, walk, and move around in the gown. You’ll be wearing it for hours—make sure it’s not just beautiful, but livable.Take Photos (If Allowed)
Pictures help you remember details and how the dress looks from all angles. Just ask your boutique first—they may have rules.Don’t Overdo the Appointments
Limit yourself to 1–2 boutiques per day. Too many can blur together and leave you overwhelmed.Trust Your Gut
When you find your dress, you’ll feel it. Don’t second-guess it just because it’s not what you imagined at first.Say “Yes” When You’re Ready
There’s no pressure to cry or have a moment. If you feel confident, comfortable, and you in the dress—it’s the one.Here are some local shops that our brides have use:
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Think About Your Stage of Life
If you're just starting out or moving in together, a traditional registry (with home goods, appliances, etc.) can be super helpful.
If you already have the essentials, a honeymoon fund lets guests contribute to meaningful experiences instead of stuff.
You Can Do Both
Many couples set up a hybrid registry that includes physical gifts and a honeymoon fund—giving guests options based on their preferences.Be Specific and Personal
For registries: Choose a variety of price points and only list items you truly want.
For honeymoon funds: Break it into experiences (e.g., “sunset dinner,” “snorkeling tour”) so guests feel connected to what they’re giving.
Choose the Right Platform
Sites like Zola, Honeyfund, or The Knot let you mix physical gifts and cash funds seamlessly and securely.Explain It Kindly on Your Website
Not everyone’s familiar with honeymoon funds. A warm note like, “Your presence is the best gift of all, but if you’d like to contribute to our honeymoon adventures, we’ve set up a fund below” goes a long way.Avoid Awkward Wording on Invites
Keep registry info on your wedding website, not the formal invitation—it's more polite and gives room to explain.Don’t Feel Guilty Asking for Experiences
Guests want to give you something meaningful. Whether it’s towels or Tahiti, make it true to you.