11 Months Out

    • If you haven’t already, it’s imperative that you get your priority vendors booked for your date. Ultimately your priority vendors are whichever vendors are most important to you.

    • However the common priority vendors aside from your venue and catering are your DJ, Photographer, and Videographer.

    • Here is a list of our Recommended Vendors to help you out!

    • Book Early, Especially in Peak Seasons
      Spring and fall dates go fast! Aim to schedule 6–9 months before the wedding—or earlier if you're using photos for save-the-dates.

    • Choose a Photographer You Vibe With
      If you’ve already booked your wedding photographer, this is a perfect time to get comfortable with them before the big day.

    • Pick a Location That Feels You
      Whether it’s your favorite park, a cozy café, downtown, or at home—choose a spot that reflects your personality as a couple.

    • Time It with Golden Hour
      Early morning or late afternoon light makes for the dreamiest photos. Your photographer can help plan the best time.

    • Coordinate, Don’t Match
      Wear outfits that complement each other in color and style—but avoid being too “matchy.” Stick to 1–2 outfits max.

    • Plan for Weather and Backup Options
      If you're outdoors, have a flexible mindset or a backup date/location just in case.

    • Use the Photos Creatively
      Engagement shots can be used for your save-the-dates, wedding website, guest book, social media, or even your décor!

    • Relax and Be Yourselves
      This is about capturing your connection, not posing perfectly. Laugh, move, and have fun—you’ll love the results more

    • Start Early
      Launch your site around the time you send save-the-dates—especially if you’re having a destination or multi-day wedding.

    • Choose a Simple, Clean Design
      Stick to a layout that’s easy to navigate and matches your wedding style. Most platforms have wedding-specific templates.

    • Include the Must-Have Info
      Be sure to add:

      • Your names and wedding date

      • Venue(s) and address(es)

      • Timeline of events

      • Dress code

      • Accommodation options

      • Travel tips or maps

      • RSVP form (if using online RSVPs)

      • Registry links

    • Write in Your Voice
      Keep it warm, casual, and you. A short welcome message or “Our Story” section adds personality without needing to be long.

    • Use Password Protection If Needed
      Some couples prefer to keep details private—many platforms let you add a password or hide the site from search engines.

    • Make It Mobile-Friendly
      Guests will likely view your site on their phones, so choose a template that’s responsive and easy to read on all devices.

    • Keep It Updated
      Add any schedule changes, weather tips, or final reminders as the big day gets closer. Let your guests know to check back.

    • Link to Your Social Media or Hashtag
      If you're using a wedding hashtag or Instagram handle, include it on your site so guests can tag and follow along.

    • Start Early (but Not Too Early)
      Begin 9–12 months before your wedding to allow time for ordering and alterations—but don’t start so early that your style might change.

    • Set a Realistic Budget
      Factor in not just the dress, but alterations, accessories, shoes, and undergarments. Be honest about your number upfront with your stylist.

    • Keep an Open Mind
      You might fall in love with something unexpected. Try on a few different silhouettes—you never know what will make you feel amazing.

    • Limit Your Crew
      Bring 1–3 trusted people whose opinions matter most. Too many voices can make decision-making stressful.

    • Wear the Right Undergarments
      Nude or seamless underwear and a strapless bra can help you visualize the fit better. Bring shoes with a similar heel height if you have them.

    • Think About Comfort + Movement
      Sit, walk, and move around in the gown. You’ll be wearing it for hours—make sure it’s not just beautiful, but livable.

    • Take Photos (If Allowed)
      Pictures help you remember details and how the dress looks from all angles. Just ask your boutique first—they may have rules.

    • Don’t Overdo the Appointments
      Limit yourself to 1–2 boutiques per day. Too many can blur together and leave you overwhelmed.

    • Trust Your Gut
      When you find your dress, you’ll feel it. Don’t second-guess it just because it’s not what you imagined at first.

    • Say “Yes” When You’re Ready
      There’s no pressure to cry or have a moment. If you feel confident, comfortable, and you in the dress—it’s the one.

    • Here are some local shops that our brides have use:

    • Think About Your Stage of Life

      • If you're just starting out or moving in together, a traditional registry (with home goods, appliances, etc.) can be super helpful.

      • If you already have the essentials, a honeymoon fund lets guests contribute to meaningful experiences instead of stuff.

    • You Can Do Both
      Many couples set up a hybrid registry that includes physical gifts and a honeymoon fund—giving guests options based on their preferences.

    • Be Specific and Personal

      • For registries: Choose a variety of price points and only list items you truly want.

      • For honeymoon funds: Break it into experiences (e.g., “sunset dinner,” “snorkeling tour”) so guests feel connected to what they’re giving.

    • Choose the Right Platform
      Sites like Zola, Honeyfund, or The Knot let you mix physical gifts and cash funds seamlessly and securely.

    • Explain It Kindly on Your Website
      Not everyone’s familiar with honeymoon funds. A warm note like, “Your presence is the best gift of all, but if you’d like to contribute to our honeymoon adventures, we’ve set up a fund below” goes a long way.

    • Avoid Awkward Wording on Invites
      Keep registry info on your wedding website, not the formal invitation—it's more polite and gives room to explain.

    • Don’t Feel Guilty Asking for Experiences
      Guests want to give you something meaningful. Whether it’s towels or Tahiti, make it true to you.